Shopping for girls between 9 and 12 years old can be tricky. They’re not little kids anymore, but they’re not teenagers yet either. These tween years can be confusing – for both the tweens and the people who care about them!
Tweens are starting to figure out who they are and what they like. One day they might love something, and the next day they might think it’s totally uncool. They want to be more independent, even though they still need help with basic things like keeping their room clean.
But here’s the good news: this time doesn’t have to be complicated. It can actually be really exciting! These years are when tweens start discovering new interests and developing their own style. When you give them a gift that matches who they’re becoming, it shows them that you understand and support them.
1. Sephora Gift Card
The ultimate freedom of choice comes with a Sephora gift card, letting tweens pick out their own skincare, hair products, or makeup from a trusted beauty store. Young shoppers can try different products before deciding what to buy, making the shopping experience more engaging and personal. It’s an excellent way to let them make their own choices while staying within a budget you set.
2. Penguin Books ‘Wreck This Journal’ by Keri Smith
Unlike traditional diaries, the Wreck This Journal encourages users to poke holes in pages, drag them through dirt, and embrace creative destruction. Each page features different instructions that help tweens be creative without worrying about perfection. The journal offers a liberating way to express yourself and learn that sometimes making a mess can lead to something amazing.
3. Nicole Miller New York Nail Polish Set
15 mini nail polishes allow for such a creativity in nail art that one can hardly imagine. With a rainbow of options including pinks, purples, blues, and greens – both in plain and glittery finishes – young artists can mix and match colors to create their own unique nail art or coordinate their nails with their outfits.
4. Knopf Books for Young Readers ‘Stargirl’ by Jerry Spinelli
The compelling story of a unique girl named Stargirl who isn’t afraid to be different when she starts at a new school. The narrative explores what it means to be yourself, even when others want you to change. With a recent adaptation on Disney+, tweens can read the book and then watch the story come to life on screen.
5. Lands’ End Hooded Fleece Robe
Softness and warmth comes in many forms but none beats the warmth of a lavish robe that comes with a luxurious hood, this one even has spacious pockets to boot.. Available in six colors, it’s perfect for post-shower wear or weekend lounging. The medium-weight fabric provides year-round comfort without being overly warm.
6. Uncommon Goods Create Your Own Video Game Set
An innovative kit empowers tweens to design and build arcade-style video games without advanced coding knowledge. The versatile device transforms into different tools, including a motion-sensing controller and activity-tracking smartwatch. A perfect introduction to game development that combines learning with creative fun.
7. TwoPointOh Games Artsy Fartsy Drawing Game
An entertaining card game that generates laughter and quick thinking as players attempt to create drawings under challenging conditions. Participants must draw with their eyes closed or using their non-dominant hand, resulting in hilariously imperfect artwork. The perfect combination of creativity and humor makes it ideal for family game nights or sleepovers.
8. Chronicle Books ‘Just Between Us’ Mother and Daughter Journal by Meredith and Sofie Jacobs
A special shared journal creates private space for mothers and daughters to exchange feelings, stories, and questions. Thoughtful writing prompts facilitate conversations about various topics, from light-hearted to meaningful. The journal strengthens bonds and promotes understanding during the sometimes challenging tween years.
10. Amazon Echo Dot
The versatile smart speaker plays music, sets alarms, answers questions, and even helps with homework through voice commands. Users can call friends and family, check the weather, or play music from favorite apps like Spotify. Multiple Echo Dots can work like an intercom system in the house, combining fun with functionality.
11. CRAFTILOO Embroidery Starter Kit
A contemporary take on traditional embroidery introduces the craft to a new generation. The complete kit includes materials for five designs that can become trendy backpack accessories. The relaxing hobby develops creativity and focus while producing displayable art.
12. Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza Card Game
An energetic card-matching game that keeps players alert and entertained with quick-thinking challenges. Players must stay focused and be ready to slap their hands on the pile when matching cards appear, creating an exciting and engaging experience. The simple rules make it perfect for parties or family game nights, as anyone can learn to play in minutes.
13. Nike Air Force 1 Sneakers
Nike’s iconic Air Force 1 sneakers represent a timeless blend of style and comfort that has remained popular for generations. Available in various colors and materials for personal style expression, these versatile shoes complement almost any outfit. The sneakers’ durability makes them perfect for everything from school days to weekend adventures.
14. Vans Classic Slip-On Wide Checkerboard Shoe
Vans’ timeless checkerboard slip-ons represent an enduring style that remains relevant today. The convenient slip-on design combines with all-day comfort and versatility. These durable shoes add a touch of skateboard culture to any outfit while standing up to daily wear.
15. Blibean Long Sleeve Tie Back Dress
A flowing dress featuring long sleeves and an elegant design perfectly balances style with comfort for fashion-conscious tweens. The adjustable back tie ensures a perfect fit, while the versatile style works for various occasions from school to special events. The Taylor Swift-inspired aesthetic makes it particularly appealing to young fashion enthusiasts.
16. Treats International Snack Box
Monthly deliveries of carefully curated snacks from different countries create an exciting culinary adventure. Each box arrives filled with both sweet and savory treats, allowing tweens to explore global flavors. The experience offers a delicious way to learn about different cultures from home.
17. Joelle Jewelry Design Personalized Name Necklace
A sterling silver necklace crafted with any name or meaningful word adds a personal touch to any outfit. Available in gold, white gold, or rose gold coating, the well-crafted piece allows tweens to wear their name or a word that holds special meaning to them.
18. Teen ‘Harry Potter’ Time-Turner Clock
A magical timepiece replicating Hermione’s time-turner from Harry Potter adds enchantment to any room. The spinning mechanism and central hourglass create an air of mystery and wonder. Perfect for Potter enthusiasts looking to add magical touches to their space.
19. WYSBAOSHU Comfort Non-Slip Slides
Popular on TikTok, these ultra-comfortable waterproof slides live up to their “Cloud Slides” nickname. Suitable for both indoor and outdoor use, these practical shoes win approval from parents for their durability and functionality. A practical gift guaranteed to see regular use.
20. Women Gripper Slipper Bootie
Premium slipper booties from Bombas combine the comfort of warm socks with the functionality of house slippers. Featuring specially designed grips on the bottom for safe walking and ultra-soft interior lining, these cozy foot coverings provide warmth and style perfect for lounging or hosting friends.
21. Sterling Ethos Modern Witch Tarot
A beautifully illustrated tarot deck helps tweens explore their thoughts and feelings through modern artwork. The 78-card collection comes with an easy-to-follow guide explaining each card’s meaning, featuring diverse representations of people. The deck provides a creative way for tweens to reflect on their choices and dreams while learning about an ancient tradition.
22. HarperCollins The Graveyard Book
An enchanting narrative follows Nobody “Bod” Owens through his unique upbringing by graveyard residents. The story masterfully balances spooky elements with heartwarming moments as the protagonist uncovers his mysterious past. Perfect for tweens who enjoy atmospheric stories with just the right amount of darkness.
23. Crosley Cruiser Plus Record Player
A portable record player introduces the magic of vinyl while maintaining modern convenience through Bluetooth connectivity. Available in four striking colors, the player bridges the gap between classic vinyl and digital streaming. The perfect gift for music lovers who want to explore both vintage and contemporary listening experiences.
24. Pooqla Letter Marquee
A color-changing letter light adds personality to any room with 16 different color options. The included remote control allows easy color changes and pattern adjustments from anywhere in the room. The customizable light creates ambient illumination perfect for reading or relaxing.
25. Jimmy Choo I Want Choo Forever Perfume
In recent years the most popular orientation is a fragrance with a kind of notes in between boyish-sporty scents and ‘grownup’ orientated perfumes. The light, sweet scent strikes just the right note – neither too childish nor too mature. An ideal first perfume that makes special occasions feel even more memorable.
26. Alo Yoga Warrior Mat
A premium yoga mat provides the perfect foundation for yoga practice or general exercise routines. The non-slip, moisture-wicking surface and optimal thickness ensure comfortable workouts. An excellent tool for developing physical awareness and mindfulness, whether following online videos or attending classes.
27. Bonangel Novelty Socks
Vibrant sock collections featuring 6 to 12 pairs bring personality to any outfit with fun patterns and designs. From cute animals to striking patterns, these socks allow self-expression even in uniform environments. A practical gift that adds joy to the daily routine of getting dressed.
28. Felt Like Sharing Felt Letter Board
A versatile message board allows endless self-expression through quotes, jokes, or daily announcements. Including 300 letters and symbols, the board provides unlimited possibilities for creative communication. The perfect room decoration for sharing personality and thoughts.
31. Glossier Balm Dotcom Trio
A curated set of three lip balms provides both moisture and subtle shine. Made with nourishing ingredients for dry lip relief, users can choose from nine varieties to create their perfect combination. An ideal introduction to skincare for tweens wanting to care for their lips while adding a touch of style.
33. Wall Jewelry Organizer
A wall-mounted jewelry solution keeps necklaces, bracelets, and accessories organized and visible. The functional design includes various hooks and bars for different types of jewelry while saving valuable dresser space. The organizer doubles as attractive wall decor while keeping accessories tangle-free.
34. Lifearound2angels Handmade Bath Bombs
Luxurious bath bombs transform ordinary baths into aromatic, fizzy experiences with scents like coconut, lavender, and ocean breeze. Made with skin-friendly ingredients, they dissolve completely without residue. The set includes 12 unique bath bombs, offering plenty of options for elevated bath time experiences.
38. Cards Against Humanity Family Edition
A family-appropriate version of the popular party game keeps everyone laughing with age-appropriate humor. Players create funny combinations without any inappropriate content, making it perfect for mixed-age groups. An ideal choice for family game nights that everyone from kids to grandparents can enjoy.
39. Fujifilm INSTAX Mini 7+ Camera
Fujifilm’s instant camera captures and prints memories immediately, reminiscent of classic Polaroid moments. Unlike digital photos, these tangible memories can instantly become room decoration or scrapbook additions. The perfect tool for creating physical mementos of special moments with friends.
40. ULTA Beauty Lip Library
An extensive collection of lip products from Ulta includes glosses, oils, stains, and creams in various shades. Young makeup enthusiasts can experiment with different formulas and colors without committing to full-size products. The perfect starter set for exploring makeup in an age-appropriate way.